repeat after me:

  • virginity is a social construct
  • you don’t lose your virginity
  • there’s nothing valuable or precious about virginity, it’s an imaginary concept
  • virginity is inherently heterocentric
  • your worth is not defined by whether or not you’ve had a dick inside you
  • what you define as sex is up to you, you get to decide how many people you’ve had sex with
  • the end

(Source: imreallybad, via just-my-little-wonderwall3)


Because every girl needs to hear it three times a day at least.


1st: Good morning Beautiful, I hope you slept well.

2nd: How was your day Precious, how can I make it better?

3rd: Good night Sweetheart, I’m so proud of you for everything you did today. You woke up and you made me proud. Thank you for one more day.

(via sshmemily)

Before I met him, I would dance in the shower. When he was in my life, I would think about showering with him. After he left, I would sit on the ground in the shower and cry. When I got over him, I showered so quickly there was no time for dancing, fantasies or tears. Someone can invade the smallest parts of your life, you won’t even realize it until you dance in the shower again and wonder why you ever stopped.

Can I call you? I miss the sound of your voice.

Because when I was 13 years old, I was sent home for my tank top straps being a little too thin, but a boy could wear a Cool Story babe, Go Make Me A Sandwich shirt and not be looked at twice.

Because when I was 17 and I told a guy “No” and the next day the word tease was painted on my locker.

Because when I was 18 and just wanted to be friends, I was a bitch.

Because I feel the need to say “I have a boyfriend” instead of “No” because guys respect other men more than they would ever respect me.

Because society screams “don’t get raped” instead of “don’t rape”

Because I am scared to walk alone at 10 PM

Because being beautiful is the most important thing I’ll ever do.

Because when I wear my favorite skirt “I’m asking for it”

Because the song Blurred Lines exists

Because no means no no matter how you fucking spin it

Because a girl was drugged and raped with a beer bottle, and the boys who did it are out on bail.

Because I owe you nothing

Because pepper spray is a gift I receive yearly.

Because I am asked if I have a boyfriend more than I am asked about my mental health

Because my clothes say more about my consent then my mouth does.

Because the wage gap exists

Because “not all men are like that” is said way too often


Because I feel the need to say “I’m not a feminist but…”

Because I’m writing this fucking piece


coed 2012 :’) 

Say it before you run out of time. Say it before it’s too late. Say what you’re feeling. Waiting is a mistake.



i was reading through my journal and i found this one page and it broke me


thats the problem. guys want this and guys want that. they have unrealistic photoshopped ideas about what girls should look like. we’re expected to have big boobs, a small waist, huge ass, and nice legs. that’s the whole reason a good amount of girls hate their bodies, because they dont look the…


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